I am Blessed

We are all blessed in many ways, but I would like to take the time to reflect on how blessed I am to have people in my life that love me. My circle of friends and family is so very important to my every day life. I cherish and love these special people, but more importantly (to me), they cherish and love me.

There are a few truths in life. One is that we don't get to pick our family. I am blessed with two truly wonderful parents that I respect, and who treat me as the adult that I am. I talk with each of my parents several times a week and we share what is going on in our lives; even if it is nothing much. My mother always has funny stories and observations that brighten my day. I enjoy the few minutes we share and hope they help us stay closer. My father and I share interesting tidbits about whatever crosses our minds. Our conversations are fun and relaxing, and he continues to impress me with all he is doing in his retirement. I am fortunate to be so proud of the two people who helped shape me into me.

The rest of my family, Mike's family, is my family, too. Pat and I chat frequently about random things -- Top Chef, or something in town -- even if only for a few minutes. Deirdre, Connor, and Fiona always brings smiles to our faces. Family times together are always very special.

Another of those truths in life is that we do get to pick our friends. Some friends are short-term friends that last through a class, a club, a party. Others are friends for a lifetime. It's a funny thing; you don't know, when you first make a friend, which type a person will be. I think we are all optimistic and think our friends will be with us for always. I guess that isn't always the case. I am blessed to have a good number of friends who I hold very close to my heart. People that are not related to me by blood, but whose ties are as strong or stronger than blood could be. I will be forever grateful that Melissa and I became friends as little girls. We have been through a lot together, and I respect and admire her more than I could adequately express. Other friends have been a part of our lives for many years, too. Deb, Helen, Steve have seen both smiles and storms around me, and have stuck by me through and through. I am not an easy person to be around, so I cherish those poor souls that stick by me.

This post is not entirely random. I received two lovely cards last night that inspired me to write this. One was from my mother. She received a little something in the mail from me and wanted to let me know she liked it.

The other card was from Melissa. It was an unexpected, very wonderful surprise. She wanted to say hi during my week of Mike being away, and wish us a good trip to Puerto Rico.

As I said, I am truly blessed to have so many people that I care for so deeply, and who care back.

Have a wonderful weekend!